FORGET WHO YOU WERE TO BECOME WHAT YOU WANT TO BE

We have heard hard work pays so we continue to be diligent, focused and work hard tirelessly in the hope that we will reach our goal. But what we don’t realize is that you can’t get to the diamonds if you are digging down the wrong cave. You can’t use a jack knife and a spade where you need a drill and a shovel. The effort we put in is rarely realistic and then somewhere down the line we give up.

But it takes helluva lotta guts to accept that and be ready to change. BE READY TO FORGET WHO YOU WERE, TO BECOME WHO YOU WANT TO BE. This line holds true in any field of work, any educational pursuit, any learning experience, any bodily change you want.

We come pre-conditioned, prejudiced, though none will agree, always having a certain fixed mindset about things expected from us by our teachers, parents, employers and vice versa too. The Zen of the matter is we do not allow ourselves to tread on undiscovered paths, see possibilities beyond the naked eye of our intelligence. Nor do we open our mind to enrich ourselves with knowledge of things beyond what we have been taught.

We allow opinionated advice or judgements to cloud our path. There is never a set way that will work for everyone. People all over the world are searching for people who think out of the box, something new, that is not a herd mentality, something that you believe in with so much passion that it forces the other to sit up and have a look. Something that one remembers long after it’s done.

So, ask yourself what is it that is really holding you back? Your own personality, your education, your status, people around you? If you have answered yes to even one of these questions, then realize that all that you are actually looking is for an excuse to blame someone else or something else for your failure. You have already begun to dig the grave to your dreams.

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When we look towards others to validate what we think is good for ourselves that in itself is a non-belief in your own capacity, in your own goal. Why would anyone believe in YOU then, when you don’t believe in yourself! I don’t mean a mindless blind belief but that which gives you a direction that is enthused with your energy, a focus that drives you to work harder, a hunger that compels your passion to achieve.

Single minded passion, perseverance, and dedicated hardwork is the only thing that opens the doors to your dream. Your mind is capable of doing anything you want it to do. Believe in YOU.

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4 thoughts on “FORGET WHO YOU WERE TO BECOME WHAT YOU WANT TO BE

  1. Lipika Reply

    Well written. I agree with your opinion. Mental will alone can overcome the obstacles in our way whether spiritual or material. And yes, we need to believe in ourselves FIRST.

  2. Sanjay Jain Reply

    BHAGYSHREE VERY WELL WRITTEN ON MIND ABILITY POTENTIAL POWER STRENGTH CAPACITY OF PERSON.
    MANY THINGS OF LIFE WE LEARN FROM OUR TEACHERS PARENTS AND FRIENDS , AND THAN WE MAKE OUR MIND TO DO SOMETHING. THINK OF DREAM GOAL TARGET, BUT MANY THINGS ABOUT US WE FORGET. OUR MIND MAKE A LIMIT BEYOND WHICH WE DONT THINK , AND BECAUSE OF THAT OUR SHIP SINK.
    YOU ARE RIGHT WE MUST THINK BEYOND OUR CAPACITY, HUMAN POWER IS UNLIMITED , IF WE GIVE 100 PERCENT , WE CAN MAKE GOOD ACHIEVEMENT. WE MUST NEVER COUNT OURSELF LESS , BUT WITH HARD WORK WE MUST REACH AT RIGHT PLACE, WE MUST GROW OUR MIND POWER FAST, ELSE WE SHALL ALWAYS BE LAST,
    VERY WELL YOU SAID HARDWORK AND DEDICATION NECESSARY TO REACH AT THE DESTINATION. LIFE SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY IF WE WANT TO REACHBOUR DREAM EARLY.
    YOU ARE RIGHT THAT SELF BELIEF IMPORTANT IF WE WANT TO DO SOMETHING GREAT . ELSE WE SHALL ALWAYS BE LATE.
    HUNGER AND FOCUS NECESSARY IF WE WANT TO ACHIEVE OUR GOAL .
    ELSE WE WILL ALWAYS BE SMALL.
    YOU ALSO STARTED YOUR CAREER WITH “KACHHI DHOOP ” SERIAL, AND WITH ONE MOVIE “MAINE PYAR KIYA ” YOU BECAME SPECIAL. IN THE INDUSTRY YOU WERE FRESHER AND NEW, BUT WITH ONE HIT THE WHOLE WORLD RECOGNISED YOU .
    SAME WITH SALMAN KHAN HE STARTED WITH AD OF SLIPPER LAKHANI , AND TODAY WE ALL KNOW HIS STAR KAHANI.
    SOORAJ BARJATYA SPOKE LESS AND NEVER TOOK STRESS, BUT TODAY WITH HIS HARD WORK HE IS AT TOP PLACE.
    SO YOU ARE RIGHT THAT FULL FOCUS AND CONCENTRATION AND TRUST IN SELF CAN MSKE US DO ANYTHING IMPOSSIBLE, AND WITH COURAGE AND POWER WE CAN OVERCOME ANY TROUBLE.
    VERY NICE U WROTE AND I M INSPIRED AND MOTIVATED BY YOUR WORDS THAT WE SHOULD USE OUR FULL POWER AND ENERGY TO ACHIEVE OUR GOAL…….

  3. SNEHADAS Reply

    MY PARENTS GAVE ME THE GREATEST GIFT ANYONE COULD GIVE ANOTHER PERSON,THEY BELIEVED IN ME BLINDLY & THAT’S MY THE REAL STRENGTH POWER POSITIVITY & COURAGE FOR ALL THE SITUATIONS! OPPORTUNITY DOESNOT KNOCK, IT PRESENTS ITSELF WHEN YOU BEAT DOWN THE DOOR.SO IF WE DON’T BELIEVE IN OURSELVES, NO ONE ELSE WILL, MY LIFE- MY CHOICE- CELEBRATE THE LIFE WITH HAPPINESS…

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